If you like seafood, try conch or oysters! It seems to help a lot of people. Also, you should really exercise. That helps gets your interest back faster than anything else.
Find a new man! :P
[quote:0daaedee67="Henrietta"]Find a new man! :P[/quote:0daaedee67] LOL. Might work but its very cruel :)
[quote:670cf3a2f3="Henrietta"]Find a new man! :P[/quote:670cf3a2f3] all i have to say to that is oh my lol :)
I've heard that exercise is great for libido. Get your mate to exercise with you. Hold hands on a walk together. EllieFunt
this has nothing to do with the man....it is me personally..... please, real answers only. ps. i'm not too big on seafood
You give little information about your health and age. There are many factors that can cause a decrease in your sex drive. Being overweight is one of them - and this could be on both physical and mental levels. That is, you might view yourself as so unattractive, that you can't imagine anyone else being with you. As such, your sex drive drops. This is clearly a mental issue that therapy may help you overcome. Most people shun therapy because they think it makes them "weak" - but therapy is a great chance to discuss crucial issues that can tackle a wide array of topics. But if we discuss purely physical issues for now, there could be things like high blood pressure, diabetes or other problems, often caused by being overweight, that can be causing your drop in sex drive. Also, you might be reaching an age where your hormones are shifting. Some women have this occur far earlier in life than others. Or there could simply be a hormone imbalance. Therefore, I'd STRONGLY recommend talking to your doctor about this. Only he/she can see exactly what the issues are and take corrective action. If you have already spoken to your doctor and are taking the proper medicines, while simultaneously eating well and trying to lose weight, then I suggest just giving things a bit of time to work. In a month, your world might be very different. :D Lastly, you might also want to look into the equivalent of a "female Viagra". There are products out there that will increase the sex drive for women only. Again, I recommend discussing them with your doctor first. You do not want to take medication that might clash with any existing medication you are taking - this could cause a deadly reaction! 8O Second, I don't want you to spend tons of $$ on some "magic formula" that doesn't work. Only your doctor can give you solid advice. Best of luck to you!
good points. the more vigor you have the more sex drive, generally. so it may be physical in nature. i bet more exercise would definitely help.
Keep talking to your doctors. In the past my regular doctor dismissed my talks and sent me to my gyn, my gyn told me "welcome to life with 2 kids". HUH??? The only doctor who would listen was my neurologist, who suspected it was my medication. Don't let your doctors dismiss your concerns and don't be embarrassed to talk to them about it. (they've heard everything) Keep talking until someone will listen! Good luck. EllieFunt
A pretty neat book is called "The Five Love Languages" It might be a blessing to you! It talks about different people and how they are stimulated differently for love (and sex) Just a thought.. hope it helps. Respectfully, AF lll