Hi you are not hopeless. I sent you a message hope to hear from you soon, you can chat to me anytime you like.
it's great that loobe sent you some suggestions. could we have a little more information. what diets have you tried in the past and about how much weight do you have to use. you just tell that hubby of yours that you have decided to lose weight and that you are picking a plan and that you are doing it to show how much you love your life together!
lindyk~I know just how you feel. I've been married for 21 years and have gained 90 lbs. since we got married. If your husband truely loves you he will not leave you for someone else. You need to loose the weight for yourself not for your husband. :) Don't give up. I have come to the conclusion that diets don't work. They just make you fatter. Lifestyle is the key and my new lifestyle starts now! Hang in there! Tell your husband how you feel because communication is also a biggie. Feeling like you are alone and facing this on your own will only alienate you and your husband. Then you will feel like you are loosing him. Take it from someone who knows! :wink: Good luck sweetie!
Any man who would leave you for someone smaller ain't worth having!