First of all, dont listen to what those people say about you. Just follow a strict diet and you should be where you want to be before long. Good luck! :)
exercise and healthy diet could help you lose some weight., try not to let what others say about you get you down. if you drink soda, try to cut back, it adds a lot of calories to your daily diet.
Thanks for all of the people that're helping me so far! :D
Let me, relate, im 14 i was made fun of in elementary and our elementary split up half went to central and half went to south (for middle school) now, im a freshmen i have gotten taller and im ''slimmer'' im not skinny but i look better [they said so] and its really all becasue of me excersising and my #1 reccomadation palaties, its like yoga, but not as much crazy barbie twisting crap. LOL...so beg your mom for palaties and try not to drink alot of pop and if you eat school food, try getting a sub, or salad, no greasy pizza or cooks choice crap....its all just a brick wall in your way of slimming up. Been there, ate that. I know the holidays will be hard becasue of all the stuff for your holiday dinners or whatever....but try your hardest, and make cutting back and excersising your new years resoulution......Oh and HOT TIP......when you go bathing suit shopping, sont immediatally go for the bikinis....do a tankini if your not quite comfortabe enough....get a bathing suit that works on you dont try to work for the bathing suit. If you find your self covering up with a towel, chances are your not going to be very comfortable....get what i mean, let yourself be confident walking from your towel to the water or whatever without covering somewhere with your hands......so i hope this helps....~Jenna :lol:
Middle School and High School is hard, I have been there and not to long ago. I have only been out for about 2 years and I remember those days like they were yesterday. In Both Middle School and High School I battled with my weight going up and down. My major suggestion is don't worry at all about what they say. Most likely, they are not your friends anyways so their opinion is not all that important to you anyway. If they are your friends I hope they are talking to you in a more constructive way, otherwise I wouldn'y consider them your friends anyway. I know you are young and you want to be slim and beautiful, and you can be, but you have to do it for yourself (NOT THEM), you have to be ready and willing to change your life style. Eat right, no more fast food, no more coke (I limit myself to maybe one sprite a week and as for anything else to drink I have water), and try to get your parents to cook healthier meals for you if they don't already. Eat smaller portions, learn to be able to tell when you are satisfied and stop there instead of finishing what is on your plate (my biggest problem). If you can't go to the gym, walk, jog, or run around your neighborhood, get some free weights and lifts them, or do palaties or any other video type workout that you feel most comfortable with. If I learned anything other than what they were trying to cram into our heads in Middle School and High School, I learned that you only need to worry about you, not the rest of the world. Be true to yourself and do what makes you feel best. If you don't like them or is they don't like you, let it go, you probabaly won't have to deal with them more than in the few years you are in school together, and as far as an entire life is conserned, not that very long in the skeem of things. So if you think you are overweight and you want to feel better, loose all the weight you can and look good girl, but don't do anything to change yourself for someone else (it won't stick and in the end you won't be happy with it). Good Luck
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I agree with everyone else, don't let others get you down. You know you are beautiful, and sucks for those other guys if they can't see it. Don't let others bother you, but also don't let them be the reason you lose weight. Lose the weight for YOU, not for anybody else, and then you will truly feel great about yourself. Good Luck! :D